Slow Sex: what is it?

Find out all about Slow Sex, this new trend that extends even more the pleasure of having sex. 

How about slowing down and enjoying the sex in the best way? There is a new trend called Slow Sex, which translated into Portuguese means slow sex, that is, “pleasure without haste”. But that doesn't mean it has to be boring. By prolonging foreplay, it is possible to delay ejaculation and make the experience with your partner even more pleasurable. (On the image, our gorgeous Patricia Hollweg). 

Learn to enjoy sex to the fullest with the tips below:

Planning 

No quickies! You need to plan so that there is no disruption. Choose a calm, peaceful environment without outside interference. So you can be relaxed, rested and totally surrendered to each other. Light some candles, press play (enjoy our playlist of songs to listen to during sex) and create a special mood.

Unhurried sex 

According to a survey on sex life in Brazil, intercourse lasts an average of 15 to 30 minutes. In Slow Sex it is desirable that you spend at least 30 minutes enjoying foreplay (short time compared to tantric sex). The idea is to live in the moment and connect intensely with your partner. 

Focus on oral 

For many couples, oral sex is almost a rite of passage to penetration. In Slow Sex you have to be softer, feeling the partner's reaction. Pay attention to details, watch their reactions - gestures make all the difference. Enjoy and check out our 7 tips to perform oral sex on them. 

Explore other ways

Here penetration is not allowed, try to find satisfaction by exploring other ways. Feet, nipples, clitoris and labia are the most popular places to arouse pleasure - but there are many others waiting to be stimulated. See our blog post about erogenous zones and learn how to stimulate them. 

Accessories are a must 

A good option to invest in foreplay is to bet on aromatic oils, massage gels and lubricants with a hot or cold effect (check our tips here). Candles that melt on contact with the body are also great for increasing the connection between the couple. Take the opportunity to massage your partner (always slowly and gently). 

Penetration only at the end

By now your partner must be at gunpoint! That's when you need to start penetration little by little, avoiding fast movements that can lead to orgasm. The slowness will cause the climax to increase and the sensation to become even more intense for both of you. Enjoy all the routes and enjoy the routes! 

Remember: Slow Sex is about living the way, not just the destination!