The Ultimate Guide to Online Flirting

We've prepared some tips for you to be successful in any relationship app. Check out!

Indispensable for the path of achievement, using text messaging is a great way to start a conversation and leave for the end. Nowadays there are a lot of apps to bet on: Tinder, Inner Circle, Instagram, C-date (see others here).

The problem is that some flaws can be made when talking to the desired woman. Check out this article for the main mistakes in virtual flirting and learn how to avoid them:

1 - Be totally available

You know chicks, she gives you her number  to add on WhatsApp and you're done! The first message is sent, it replies and so the chat begins. Her answers are short and quick without showing much interest… Take it easy! Bet on the mental trigger called 'scarcity', what is limited is tastier. Demonstrate that you are a busy guy and have other options, she is sure to be more interested.


2 - Introduce yourself

- "Hi, do you remember me? I'm the guy, I got your number from the club. ” This is usually the first message that will be sent. Ideally, you should send something intimate, as if you have known each other for years! Never treat her as a stranger when sending the first message, it will make her feel more comfortable - and  attracted to you.


3 - Several questions

Remember, flirting is not a job interview: where do you live? What do you work with? Do you go to college? Women have a routine like anyone else! They are looking for someone to get them out of this boring routine of everyday life, this boring chat will not lead to anything. Soon you will be dismissed and she will no longer reply to the messages. Be fun, have attitude!


4 - Don't suggest a date

How about reversing the order? Most guys try to set up a date very quickly, so it greatly increases her chance of refusing. Why didn't she stumble? The conversation was fun! You need to start all over again, talking to a woman is not always so easy. That's where a lot of guys give up! Try again and get her attracted to you again before inviting her out.