Open relationship: The lowdown

Open relationships are increasingly common, but will it work for you? Learn all about it and find out! 

In recent years non-monogamy has gained increasing visibility. The practice of engaging with more than one partner emotionally and sexually is becoming popular among couples. Outsiders may find it strange to share time, pleasure and attention with someone else. But there are also those who say that “open relationships” can be a great way to avoid routine and spice up the relationship. But are you ready to live this experience? 

Learn more about this relationship model and discover:

Far from being the rule among animals, monogamy is a social concept that has been gradually deconstructed. According to surveys, 50% of men and 30% of women admit to having cheated on their partner at some point. Other new research claims that people who are in a polyamorous or open relationship are actually happier than those who are monogamous.


The term “open” comes from the idea of something without obligations or ties, the “closed” relationship corresponds to the traditional model. But one thing is for sure: to start this experience you need to talk to your partner and be prepared for challenging, different and jealous moments.


For many couples, “free love” creates alternatives for parallel relationships, without this being seen as infidelity. There is no fixed pattern with rules, each couple defines the conditions to reach a particular consensus - we must punctuate dialogue and self-knowledge.



Points that should be made clear (before starting an open relationship):


What levels of involvement will be allowed? Does non-exclusivity apply to any time, day of the week, place or will there be restrictions? Is it just sex? Ex-partners, friends and mutual acquaintances a no-no, or would it be ok? Will you talk openly about your adventures or keep it a secret? Both must be 100% sure of what they consider healthy to allow for the other and for themselves.


The advantages of starting an open relationship can be tempting, after all, you will have more freedom, complicity, guilt-free desire and you will be free from the ghost of betrayal. But if the main motivation is an attempt to save the marriage or courtship, it can become a big issue.


Most important of all!  You must know how to impose yourself, know your limits and build a relationship based on trust. So, are you prepared, have you lived or are you living this experienc.