How to be more confident in bed

How confident do you feel when it comes to sex? We've prepared some tips to help you gain more confidence and pleasure, whether with a casual partner or someone new. 

How about trying to live in the moment? Open yourself up completely to the sensations that lie ahead, let yourself be carried away on the paths of pleasure. When it comes to bedroom skills, not all men feel confident - especially when it comes to different partners. At the beginning, there might be nervousness about whether you're doing well, or a fear that she might not like something you're doing...

With that in mind, we've prepared some tips to help you feel more secure and capable of providing a satisfying intimate experience (whether with a casual partner or someone new):

Know your body

Having knowledge about your own body is essential to knowing what gives you pleasure. This will help you feel more at ease and guide your partner in a way that works well for both of you. Learn more here about the benefits of masturbation. 

Communication

Express your feelings, desires, and fantasies. Communication is the best way to fully engage in the moment. It's beneficial to talk, understand what your partner likes, and set boundaries for a good sexual experience. 

Let go

Stop worrying so much! If you keep thinking only about pleasing the woman, it will hinder your self-confidence and the sex will be less enjoyable. Leave your worries behind, immerse yourself in the moment, and remember: leave aside the performances from porn movies. 

Healthy lifestyle

Take care of your physical and mental well-being. Start exercising to feel comfortable without clothes, consider grooming to feel "clean" in certain areas - these are factors that can make a difference in your self-confidence. Practicing self-care (see some tips here) reduces stress and anxiety, helping you feel more relaxed.

Try new things 

Exploring new things in intimacy can be exciting and rejuvenating. Try different positions, sensual games, or fantasies. However, it's crucial that both partners are comfortable and in agreement before trying something new. Here are some positions to make your partner orgasm.

It doesn't solely depend on you; sex is an interaction between two people. Be kind to yourself as you embark on this journey of pleasure.