You don't know how to fuck!
Yes, that “I” say it, because if 70% of women in a stable relationship are not having fun, something you think is right is very wrong! Then you, Dear, Grasshopper, ask me: “Fer, is there a way to change this scenario”? Any tips to improve this statistic? And I answer you: Yessssssssssssssssss!
Before any far-fetched position, any tongue-in-cheek, have the understanding that a woman needs in a relationship to feel desired, courted, loved, welcomed, and you "darling" need to be a MAN, not the motherfucker's son who decided to play house together with the cat, man needs to offer a SAFE environment (if you want me to talk more about this topic, put it in the comments, which I bring in the next column!), understood about the basics?
Now let's talk about what to do differently for this cat to actually be going to the moon AND coming back AND asking for an encore?!
Let's start talking about the differences between men and women, while you dear grasshoppers have an active desire (looked, wished, went up to her, did, finished it...), in the case of women it's the opposite, we have the reactive desire (greater stimuli, of preference in non-obvious places, and keep in mind the connection and stimulation in the mental CLiTS on a daily basis is fundamental.
A piece of information that is beyond IMPORTANT is, while you men finish everything in an average of 3/5 minutes, women need stimuli for at least 20 minutes, until they are ready to start playing, and please, “IDon't just shag your way through it", because only 7% of us women get there through this type of stimulation, focus on the clitoris”
Having said all that, now I'm going to give you some tips to get out of the obvious, and YES, apply them WITHOUT MODERATION, and make the hottie die of lust for you and take this relationship to another level.
Come on:
Points that should be VERY stimulated in the preliminary:
• Perineum, that “neither there nor here” region (area between the anus and vagina)
• Breasts: Did you know that by stimulating a woman's breasts, you activate the same area in the brain triggered by touches in the vagina? This research was essential to understand how this region is also very important.
• Ears
• Vulva (outer part of the vagina)
• Neck, nape and décolletage (please stop ignoring this region, I guarantee you that a woman can have an orgasm just with stimuli in this area)
• Clitoris: with about 10,000 nerve endings (against 3,500 for men), this boy is born with a woman just to give her pleasure, DON'T IGNORE IT.
Understanding which points to touch, now it is time to focus on body awareness, help/encourage the cat to explore her own body, a great option is to give her the “Clit sucker” vibrator as a gift (available on the link in my bio on instagram @ferpurificacao) , why a vibrator? Because body awareness is everything, people who know their own body tend to be more relaxed and more willing to rock and roll, so encourage female masturbation, and ask her to show you how she is doing, small doses of fantasy and play right away. He takes any relationship to another level.
Anyway, I hope I helped today dear grasshopper, because my TIP went from the level of IMPORTANT, to a certain
“HEY WAKE UP” we are not just two holes, so we need to connect with you to later enter.!!!!
And so I say goodbye, asking you,
ARE YOU WILLING TO BE THE DIFFERENT GUY ON THE RIDE AND EXPLORE AND ALLOW THIS CAT TO BE MORE THAN TWO HOLES?
Kisses on the <3 see you next month.
Before any far-fetched position, any tongue-in-cheek, have the understanding that a woman needs in a relationship to feel desired, courted, loved, welcomed, and you "darling" need to be a MAN, not the motherfucker's son who decided to play house together with the cat, man needs to offer a SAFE environment (if you want me to talk more about this topic, put it in the comments, which I bring in the next column!), understood about the basics?
Now let's talk about what to do differently for this cat to actually be going to the moon AND coming back AND asking for an encore?!
Let's start talking about the differences between men and women, while you dear grasshoppers have an active desire (looked, wished, went up to her, did, finished it...), in the case of women it's the opposite, we have the reactive desire (greater stimuli, of preference in non-obvious places, and keep in mind the connection and stimulation in the mental CLiTS on a daily basis is fundamental.
A piece of information that is beyond IMPORTANT is, while you men finish everything in an average of 3/5 minutes, women need stimuli for at least 20 minutes, until they are ready to start playing, and please, “IDon't just shag your way through it", because only 7% of us women get there through this type of stimulation, focus on the clitoris”
Having said all that, now I'm going to give you some tips to get out of the obvious, and YES, apply them WITHOUT MODERATION, and make the hottie die of lust for you and take this relationship to another level.
Come on:
Points that should be VERY stimulated in the preliminary:
• Perineum, that “neither there nor here” region (area between the anus and vagina)
• Breasts: Did you know that by stimulating a woman's breasts, you activate the same area in the brain triggered by touches in the vagina? This research was essential to understand how this region is also very important.
• Ears
• Vulva (outer part of the vagina)
• Neck, nape and décolletage (please stop ignoring this region, I guarantee you that a woman can have an orgasm just with stimuli in this area)
• Clitoris: with about 10,000 nerve endings (against 3,500 for men), this boy is born with a woman just to give her pleasure, DON'T IGNORE IT.
Understanding which points to touch, now it is time to focus on body awareness, help/encourage the cat to explore her own body, a great option is to give her the “Clit sucker” vibrator as a gift (available on the link in my bio on instagram @ferpurificacao) , why a vibrator? Because body awareness is everything, people who know their own body tend to be more relaxed and more willing to rock and roll, so encourage female masturbation, and ask her to show you how she is doing, small doses of fantasy and play right away. He takes any relationship to another level.
Anyway, I hope I helped today dear grasshopper, because my TIP went from the level of IMPORTANT, to a certain
“HEY WAKE UP” we are not just two holes, so we need to connect with you to later enter.!!!!
And so I say goodbye, asking you,
ARE YOU WILLING TO BE THE DIFFERENT GUY ON THE RIDE AND EXPLORE AND ALLOW THIS CAT TO BE MORE THAN TWO HOLES?
Kisses on the <3 see you next month.
Author : Fer Purificação
Posted in: 02/06/2023
Last modified: 02/06/2023
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