What do girls like???
This is a question that can be responded in millions of different ways. The fact is that it gives us a lot to think about! Perhaps some responses are so well known that they are the first to be discarded, after all, most women are looking for a great love, a family, a good job to maintain a tremendous wardrobe, and finally who knows, perhaps to conquer a position of power. Did you notice that this is in the inverse order of male priorities? First you guys want power, and then, after going out with lots of girls, perhaps you want to fall in love, and begin to think of having children, a family, a house, dog, vacations. Women, in most cases, dream of fairy tales. While men care for the practical part of life, there is plenty of time for us to plan this abstract part that is talked about so much.
Of course there are exceptions on both sides. There are women hungry for power and men who fall in love every day. It is just difficult for these two types to get together, it is nearly mathematically logical that the toughest women will leave those boys who fall in love too easily a bit scarred, just like the women who fantasize too much will suffer countless disappointments from handsome and practical men. But, ok, what’s important is to pass the message that men need to know very clear, after all, it is the feminine beings who are able to do a variety of things at the same time, right? Driving and talking on the cell phone doesn’t count, ok boys!
A bit of romance never hurt anyone
In these busy days, we want a bit of romance. An opened car door, receiving flowers in the morning, a complement at any time of day. Women are so predictable, I don’t know how they aren’t completely understood! This does not mean to say that a guy has to be a “saint”, but gentlemanly is already a very strong adjective! Women don’t mind sharing the bill, carrying the shopping bags or washing the clothes. They just like to be recognized for these gestures. A thank you opens big and lasting smiles. Try it, I guarantee.
The right dose of jealousy
Excessive jealousy bothers anyone, although “no” jealousy is much more disturbing! If your girlfriend gets all dressed up, uses new perfume and a provocative neckline there is something wrong if this doesn’t make any of your hairs stand on edge. Women use jealousy as a thermometer for many things, if you sense too much, perhaps you are too attentive; if you sense too little, perhaps you should pay her more attention.
Be flexible with menu selections
Women are methodical, a different taste is appropriate for each occasion. Watching a film on the sofa? Popcorn, of course. Going out for a drink? Champagne is perfect! After all, she doesn’t have to drink beer whenever you want to go out together, right? Know how to give a little and when you say no, say it with more subtlety. It doesn’t hurt to have a goblet before the first beer. Little by little, couples begin to find a harmony, and realize that eating a pizza is as good as eating sushi, just on different occasions.
Contemplating lingerie
Men mistakenly believe that women leave home with sensual lingerie with one objective: sex. This is not true! Women love to combine the color of their panties with the color of their bra, and this is not to be provocative. To the contrary: You should be happy to see your girlfriend or a girl who you are still just going out with using pretty lingerie...Who says that she didn’t use it to please you? Give up this macho idea that women who use small panties are not good girls. All men – even those who don’t admit it – have this prejudice. There are few who are able to visualize the good side of this taste women have. They are the happy ones, you others are losing out.
Finally...
Do we really need a manual? Isn’t it all written between the lines? We know that there is a law of exchange for everything, we must give to receive. Who said that if you want the perfect women you won’t have to work hard to deserve her? It involves rethinking some details that perhaps you didn’t realize. If you are not ready to do so, don’t complain about having the most difficult girlfriend of all your friends. Maybe its not her, perhaps her behavior is a warning. Pay attention or you could be suspended from play with your cleats in your hand. If you don’t question your own behavior you’ll have no right to complain if she joins the opposing team. Think a bit about what she likes and you can guarantee your position on the right side!
Of course there are exceptions on both sides. There are women hungry for power and men who fall in love every day. It is just difficult for these two types to get together, it is nearly mathematically logical that the toughest women will leave those boys who fall in love too easily a bit scarred, just like the women who fantasize too much will suffer countless disappointments from handsome and practical men. But, ok, what’s important is to pass the message that men need to know very clear, after all, it is the feminine beings who are able to do a variety of things at the same time, right? Driving and talking on the cell phone doesn’t count, ok boys!
A bit of romance never hurt anyone
In these busy days, we want a bit of romance. An opened car door, receiving flowers in the morning, a complement at any time of day. Women are so predictable, I don’t know how they aren’t completely understood! This does not mean to say that a guy has to be a “saint”, but gentlemanly is already a very strong adjective! Women don’t mind sharing the bill, carrying the shopping bags or washing the clothes. They just like to be recognized for these gestures. A thank you opens big and lasting smiles. Try it, I guarantee.
The right dose of jealousy
Excessive jealousy bothers anyone, although “no” jealousy is much more disturbing! If your girlfriend gets all dressed up, uses new perfume and a provocative neckline there is something wrong if this doesn’t make any of your hairs stand on edge. Women use jealousy as a thermometer for many things, if you sense too much, perhaps you are too attentive; if you sense too little, perhaps you should pay her more attention.
Be flexible with menu selections
Women are methodical, a different taste is appropriate for each occasion. Watching a film on the sofa? Popcorn, of course. Going out for a drink? Champagne is perfect! After all, she doesn’t have to drink beer whenever you want to go out together, right? Know how to give a little and when you say no, say it with more subtlety. It doesn’t hurt to have a goblet before the first beer. Little by little, couples begin to find a harmony, and realize that eating a pizza is as good as eating sushi, just on different occasions.
Contemplating lingerie
Men mistakenly believe that women leave home with sensual lingerie with one objective: sex. This is not true! Women love to combine the color of their panties with the color of their bra, and this is not to be provocative. To the contrary: You should be happy to see your girlfriend or a girl who you are still just going out with using pretty lingerie...Who says that she didn’t use it to please you? Give up this macho idea that women who use small panties are not good girls. All men – even those who don’t admit it – have this prejudice. There are few who are able to visualize the good side of this taste women have. They are the happy ones, you others are losing out.
Finally...
Do we really need a manual? Isn’t it all written between the lines? We know that there is a law of exchange for everything, we must give to receive. Who said that if you want the perfect women you won’t have to work hard to deserve her? It involves rethinking some details that perhaps you didn’t realize. If you are not ready to do so, don’t complain about having the most difficult girlfriend of all your friends. Maybe its not her, perhaps her behavior is a warning. Pay attention or you could be suspended from play with your cleats in your hand. If you don’t question your own behavior you’ll have no right to complain if she joins the opposing team. Think a bit about what she likes and you can guarantee your position on the right side!
Author : Mariana Goulart
Posted in: 10/16/2017
Last modified: 11/27/2017
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