Pandemic loves

Is the pandemic making people more needy or more self-reliant in relationships? For more than a year, people have been getting used to new ways of life. For some, everything changed, after all, isolation left different professions and occupations completely different, there was also a radical change in personal contacts and relationships.

Spending much more time together, some couples couldn't handle it and splitted. Just as loneliness brought many new couples together (those who had the courage to meet even the possibility of contracting Covid-19). A good evaluation to find someone and overcome that fear of becoming infected, she has already tested positive and guarantees that time of immunity after the days of contamination. It is funny that we are becoming experts in time of contamination, variables, vaccine laboratories, and so many other subjects related to our current routine.

Since a night out was, without a doubt, correctly and absurdly necessary, having someone at that moment is something that can be magical... Or catastrophic! The certainty is that this relationship will be intense, because if you no longer have weekly outings for social relationships, you will have company to go to the market, walks, movies, marathon nights for series, delivery orders, among other pandemic needs. But you will also have to explain more, talk more, debate more, that is, live a lot more!

And therein lies the question: there are those who love this new moment, there are those who want to be really alone, with their thoughts and wishes. Because if a relationship requires dedication, a pandemic relationship requires extra dedication! You will either live with that person a lot more, or a lot less! It depends on your vibe. One thing is certain: any type of personal relationship in the past year has changed. Even the babies, who did not take advantage of the playgrounds and squares to make new contacts and eat sand from the floor. They are also growing up with that mood of less friends ...

If for some people the pandemic is not really happening in their lives, for most it is a reality. That changed everything around, especially human and social relations. The time is ripe for organizing the house, the new routine, often the new profession or the new work format. There are those who want a good relationship now, there are those who are very happy alone. Without judgments, just with the certainty that things have changed, and so have relationships. And each one chooses his pandemic love: someone to go on the walk or your own company!