The siege is closing in!

It's war, Covid, Big Brother. It's so much conflict that our head is already on constant alert. When something seems to ease, another blow arrives! And the general mood gets heavy, after all people may not initially understand how much conflict spills into their lives around the world, but little by little the consequences appear before our eyes.
But this column addresses the behavior of women. And is your relationship facing conflict right now? So let's start with the simplest. It's March, the much celebrated women's month. And during the tributes to women on the 8th, I realized that what most women want is more success, freedom, money, recognition. They don't just want flowers and chocolates! Of course, getting a gift is good, but you know that gaining respect and notoriety is much better, right?
The discussion of feminism has gone beyond the equal rights agenda in personal and work relationships, and is going down a dark path, of conflict. As the world is in this mood of confrontation, the climate worsens. Still much ridiculed, feminism ends up becoming a joke in men's circles, among comedians and even among women! Nobody knows how to separate women's rights from the discussion of gender equality, for example, because no result is reached. No one who has the opposite opinion of what the media wants (especially social networks and those annoying people who spend their days idle looking for someone to cancel), can manifest.
We can't cheer for a man in a game, we can't think that a woman would lose her civil rights in the face of something wrong in society. You can't even defend a woman who has fallen into the heart of social media. Everything becomes a problem. And every day an army of two fronts grows: people who want to conflict and get into trouble all the time with all these discussions and people who don't want more conflicts and swallow everything to not get involved (they don't even want to attend to the phone or post something on their networks for fear of reprisal).
What time huh? Getting to the point of abstaining from giving an opinion because we should only go along with the herd, whether it's right or not. After this flurry of relationships that ended after the quarantines, relationships will go through confrontation head on. Fight it or simply shut up?
But this column addresses the behavior of women. And is your relationship facing conflict right now? So let's start with the simplest. It's March, the much celebrated women's month. And during the tributes to women on the 8th, I realized that what most women want is more success, freedom, money, recognition. They don't just want flowers and chocolates! Of course, getting a gift is good, but you know that gaining respect and notoriety is much better, right?
The discussion of feminism has gone beyond the equal rights agenda in personal and work relationships, and is going down a dark path, of conflict. As the world is in this mood of confrontation, the climate worsens. Still much ridiculed, feminism ends up becoming a joke in men's circles, among comedians and even among women! Nobody knows how to separate women's rights from the discussion of gender equality, for example, because no result is reached. No one who has the opposite opinion of what the media wants (especially social networks and those annoying people who spend their days idle looking for someone to cancel), can manifest.
We can't cheer for a man in a game, we can't think that a woman would lose her civil rights in the face of something wrong in society. You can't even defend a woman who has fallen into the heart of social media. Everything becomes a problem. And every day an army of two fronts grows: people who want to conflict and get into trouble all the time with all these discussions and people who don't want more conflicts and swallow everything to not get involved (they don't even want to attend to the phone or post something on their networks for fear of reprisal).
What time huh? Getting to the point of abstaining from giving an opinion because we should only go along with the herd, whether it's right or not. After this flurry of relationships that ended after the quarantines, relationships will go through confrontation head on. Fight it or simply shut up?
Author : Mariana Goulart
Posted in: 03/14/2022
Last modified: 03/14/2022
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