Talk and sex always!
The modern relationship is made up of a couple that likes to experiment. While many of us seek stability and a long-term relationship, most of us want to experience, want to live, want to enjoy the relationship.
The experiences that are more intense tend to be less or more lasting and this will depend on the personality of each one within a relationship. There are women who value romance, others who value sex. Just as there are men who like warm relationships more and others who are more sensitive. It can't even be said that there is a correct or secret formula for a winning relationship, but there are motivations for a relationship to be healthy while it lasts.
Couples who spent decades together are now almost a rarity. But when two people mature and follow parallel ideals, they can maintain a lasting relationship. Sometimes the ideals can be love, sex, financial and social status goals, or even the formation of a family and a strong structure, the goals come true, even if they can be finalized.
The truth is that for any relationship to flow and continue with health, two factors are fundamental: conversation and sex. At any age, anywhere in the world, in any financial situation. For all genres and types of relationships. Women are no longer the “please-only-the-partner” type. Women look for relationships that can meet their needs, and among them is sex! Although memes disclose that women really like a clean house, women also like good quality sex.
A misconception is to think that a relationship didn't work out because it didn't last a couple of decades. A healthy relationship, with daily conversations, healthy and constant sexual relations, goals accomplished in partnership is indeed a champion. Much better a relationship in this format than something long, tiring, emotionless, devoid of pleasure and joy. Just to last, just so society doesn't criticize.
And after this huge wave of couples separated during the pandemic (those couples we thought were unbreakable rocks) we are ready to understand that having a relationship is having to live, put up with, talk, forgive and move on. And moving forward can be together, improving, seeking adventures around the world (or in bed), creating new goals. Or it's ensuring that the necessary has been done and going different ways. But that is up to two people and not to a crowd of “bits” and intrusions from others. Because ending someone else's relationship is pretty easy. Finishing ours is up to us to decide!
The experiences that are more intense tend to be less or more lasting and this will depend on the personality of each one within a relationship. There are women who value romance, others who value sex. Just as there are men who like warm relationships more and others who are more sensitive. It can't even be said that there is a correct or secret formula for a winning relationship, but there are motivations for a relationship to be healthy while it lasts.
Couples who spent decades together are now almost a rarity. But when two people mature and follow parallel ideals, they can maintain a lasting relationship. Sometimes the ideals can be love, sex, financial and social status goals, or even the formation of a family and a strong structure, the goals come true, even if they can be finalized.
The truth is that for any relationship to flow and continue with health, two factors are fundamental: conversation and sex. At any age, anywhere in the world, in any financial situation. For all genres and types of relationships. Women are no longer the “please-only-the-partner” type. Women look for relationships that can meet their needs, and among them is sex! Although memes disclose that women really like a clean house, women also like good quality sex.
A misconception is to think that a relationship didn't work out because it didn't last a couple of decades. A healthy relationship, with daily conversations, healthy and constant sexual relations, goals accomplished in partnership is indeed a champion. Much better a relationship in this format than something long, tiring, emotionless, devoid of pleasure and joy. Just to last, just so society doesn't criticize.
And after this huge wave of couples separated during the pandemic (those couples we thought were unbreakable rocks) we are ready to understand that having a relationship is having to live, put up with, talk, forgive and move on. And moving forward can be together, improving, seeking adventures around the world (or in bed), creating new goals. Or it's ensuring that the necessary has been done and going different ways. But that is up to two people and not to a crowd of “bits” and intrusions from others. Because ending someone else's relationship is pretty easy. Finishing ours is up to us to decide!
Author : Mariana Goulart
Posted in: 04/11/2022
Last modified: 04/10/2022
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