Does the modern couple have a profile?

Beauty and behavior depend on the time in which we are inserted, to be analyzed. Beauty depends on which historical and economic context of the moment. An example? Just remember the women of a few centuries ago, who weren't thin because the beauty standard was measured by factors such as good hips for the birth of children, white skin that was synonymous with being in the shade because you don't have to work and of course, having a fed up. The current beauty standard is quite the opposite: being thin/fit because you can go to the gym, eat healthy foods (which are more expensive) and have shiny and even tanned skin (at this moment a light tan because the sun is harmful to the skin).

The definition of a couple also changes with time and the issue of behavior and social status. The old couple had a very different dynamic than we have today, where the wife was the provider of the children and the husband of the breadwinner. Today the business is different: what the couple decides is the right thing to do (even though many people think they have the right to have an opinion and to interfere in the marital life of others).

And if we could then profile the modern couple, which one would it be?

They met at a party, slept together on the first night and started a relationship from there, going out and traveling with friends. They don't think about getting married officially, they prefer to live life lightly. Their social media profiles look like travel and lifestyle influencers.

There is that couple who dated for many years, the parents insisted on an engagement, a pompous wedding. They invested in a movie apartment, in a ceremony that marked the city, they planned their children, trips, social networks are impeccable, an amount of declarations.

There are still couples who have that more minimalist profile. They prefer quality of life, discretion, they only get married if it's their will, not to show off to society. They save money for trips with cozy itineraries, with several family members. Health plans up to date, intellectual but modern school.

If we think about it, life revolves around what others want to see. From devising a plan to showing yourself, a persona. But in the end, the couple's profile doesn't matter. There are couples who live in different cities for a while and then manage to adjust everything. There are couples who live together and nothing goes right! So the conclusion is that there is no rule, there is no magic formula. They have the desire to be together and make it work, to respect, to seek goals that respect those of the other. What really matters is chemistry, it's the desire to stay in the relationship, good quality sex, partnership for life journeys, such as work and changes in general. No one can hold a couple with chemistry and aligned goals!