Be careful with that cell phone!
Ah, the smartphone! Wonderful, full of technologies, internet, apps for everything! So good huh? But also so treacherous... Just leave it in a corner and you're in danger. Or not, it all depends on how you live your life.
Nowadays, the maximum commitment and trust between a couple is to leave the cell phone lying around, without a password or entry standards. Now that's proof of love! In that idea of “those who shouldn't don't fear”, you know? But even if this is a harsh reality (and yes it is the current reality for couples), let's agree that online cheating is more common than you think...
I believe that many people are more afraid of their girlfriend unlocking their cell phone and accessing all the content than stealing or losing the device. And this is not even a joke! If we do that famous sweep in direct messages on the networks and applications of the loved one it can be quite catastrophic. In truth? It's not even good, because when people want to find something, they find it. And any harmless message can be a lethal weapon at that moment. So, choosing not to stress, I don't do that scan!
But even if not looking for a flea to scratch yourself is a reasonable option, checking it out while he's on the screen or he's been quiet on the couch for hours on his cell phone doesn't cost anything, right? So some precautions are very necessary, such as downloading compromising photos, listening to strangers' audio (from strangers is not even allowed at home), watching videos and other compromising content without any notion of who is around (and many times it can be parents or visitors random).
If there's one thing that's too compromising, it's following women with very sensual profile pictures on social media. And of course, that goes for committed men! A woman's biggest scare and anger is getting on the list of people her boyfriend/husband follows and seeing a bunch of beautiful and hot women in a row. Some have a closed profile, so the anger grows because you understand that your boyfriend had to ask to follow this person and he was accepted! Boys don't do this!
A piece of advice: keep an eye on the open profiles, save a photo in the favorites tags to know who you want to look at. But following the person, like that without any shame, is a case of B.O for sure! Sometimes you don't even do anything considered wrong and take the blame for some things. But leaving traces, even innocent ones, on the internet is a path of no return. You have to be smarter: browse the hidden tabs, don't desperately follow all the women, direct message those women.
Did you forget that notifications when they arrive will compromise you? Imagine yourself in a restaurant with your loved one and that notification goes down from a girl answering your message from an app with fire emojis, heart eyes, little flowers. My friend, it's a matter for the end! And rightly so!
And it costs nothing to hold on, my friend. Especially if you love your girlfriend or wife. Or hooker, or lover. Looking is part of the human being, and does not take away pieces. But searching, messaging, emojis, and following is already a whole new level. So when in doubt, don't overdo it.
Nowadays, the maximum commitment and trust between a couple is to leave the cell phone lying around, without a password or entry standards. Now that's proof of love! In that idea of “those who shouldn't don't fear”, you know? But even if this is a harsh reality (and yes it is the current reality for couples), let's agree that online cheating is more common than you think...
I believe that many people are more afraid of their girlfriend unlocking their cell phone and accessing all the content than stealing or losing the device. And this is not even a joke! If we do that famous sweep in direct messages on the networks and applications of the loved one it can be quite catastrophic. In truth? It's not even good, because when people want to find something, they find it. And any harmless message can be a lethal weapon at that moment. So, choosing not to stress, I don't do that scan!
But even if not looking for a flea to scratch yourself is a reasonable option, checking it out while he's on the screen or he's been quiet on the couch for hours on his cell phone doesn't cost anything, right? So some precautions are very necessary, such as downloading compromising photos, listening to strangers' audio (from strangers is not even allowed at home), watching videos and other compromising content without any notion of who is around (and many times it can be parents or visitors random).
If there's one thing that's too compromising, it's following women with very sensual profile pictures on social media. And of course, that goes for committed men! A woman's biggest scare and anger is getting on the list of people her boyfriend/husband follows and seeing a bunch of beautiful and hot women in a row. Some have a closed profile, so the anger grows because you understand that your boyfriend had to ask to follow this person and he was accepted! Boys don't do this!
A piece of advice: keep an eye on the open profiles, save a photo in the favorites tags to know who you want to look at. But following the person, like that without any shame, is a case of B.O for sure! Sometimes you don't even do anything considered wrong and take the blame for some things. But leaving traces, even innocent ones, on the internet is a path of no return. You have to be smarter: browse the hidden tabs, don't desperately follow all the women, direct message those women.
Did you forget that notifications when they arrive will compromise you? Imagine yourself in a restaurant with your loved one and that notification goes down from a girl answering your message from an app with fire emojis, heart eyes, little flowers. My friend, it's a matter for the end! And rightly so!
And it costs nothing to hold on, my friend. Especially if you love your girlfriend or wife. Or hooker, or lover. Looking is part of the human being, and does not take away pieces. But searching, messaging, emojis, and following is already a whole new level. So when in doubt, don't overdo it.
Author : Mariana Goulart
Posted in: 06/26/2023
Last modified: 06/26/2023
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Ricardão wrote on 01/09/2025 Answer