Walk-the-line or not?

We have been through some dilemmas. We find ourselves in more democratic times in social matters. Currently, many people no longer respect the dress code at events, not taking into account that it is a great way to visually organize guests, show politeness towards those who invite us and feel comfortable with our clothes next to people who are also dressed in the same way.

In ancient times, it was advised to wear black suits in the city and brown suits in more rustic places. Perhaps for a very obvious reason: colors that hide dirt, especially on pants. A way to give a cleaner look at work and primarily as a personal image. Black was, for a long time, the color indicated in the formal dress code, for events and events. That's why black clothing is linked to more solemn occasions and formal ceremonies.

Light clothes for informal occasions have never been objectionable, after all, men have long stopped wearing one color suit so that they look clean while working. But even on more formal occasions, some men are afraid to opt for lighter pieces simply for the sake of custom. Wear a dark suit during the day, wear a light suit at night. It may seem contradictory, but there is nothing wrong depending on the occasion.

If we take common sense into account, we can start from some basic notions that will easily help us. If you were invited to an event (such as a wedding, a big birthday, an inauguration) during the day, at times until 3 pm, would you feel comfortable wearing a black suit, tie and very formal shoes? Imagine your partner wearing a long, tight dress, with a super slit and lots of jewelry, sparkles and super heavy makeup. The guests are all wearing lighter clothes, lighter tones because it is a place with a sea view. Would you feel at ease or a little embarrassed?

So let's go to another occasion. A gala party at night. You arrive in a light linen suit, light shoes and no tie. His partner in a knee-length floral dress, a large bag and wooden heeled sandals, her hair down. People are all wearing their best attire, men in full suits, dark ties, women in long dresses made of sophisticated fabrics. Would you feel completely comfortable?

The dress code helps us standardize a place. And individually it helps us feel more comfortable and safe. When you have doubts about how to dress for a certain occasion, think about the collective, how everyone will be there. Don't be ashamed to contact the person who invited you to the event to find out what outfit would be appropriate to wear for the occasion. If there's something bad in this life, it's arriving at a place dressed the wrong way and not being able to do anything to solve it...